What others see on your profile
Your profile shows a nickname, never your full name. We show the distance rounded, and nobody sees your exact location. With discreet photos on, even your public photos are blurred for everyone you have not shared your album with.
You open your private album only to the people you choose, and private photos carry the viewer’s nickname as a watermark.
Discreet on your phone too
You can set an app lock with a PIN, plus a decoy PIN that opens a harmless screen. The quick exit button leaves the site in one move. Our emails and notifications also have a discreet mode.
In chats you can make messages sent from then on disappear after 24 hours or 7 days, and send view-once photos.
Affairs, lovers, adventures, without judgement
Nobody here asks why you came. People looking for a discreet affair guard the secret as carefully as you do, so it is easier to find someone who cares about the same thing. You can also add your relationship status to your profile, so there are no surprises.
You decide who can write to you
Accept messages from everyone, only from your matches, or only from verified members. As a Premium or VIP member, incognito mode shows you only to people you liked or are already talking to. Anyone you block, you will not see each other any more.
We look after your data too
Profiles are visible only to logged-in members, and search engines do not index them. You can pause or delete your account at any time and download your data.