VágyLak

Gay dating Gay dating where you do not have to explain yourself

As a gay or bi man you often end up searching on sites that were not made for you. On VágyLak men look for men just like anyone else: as equal members, on your own terms.

Men looking for men

On your profile you say who you are looking for: men, trans men, male couples, or several at once. Search is mutual, so your lists show people who are also looking for you, and they see you. Swiping, browsing and the Nearby page all work the same way.

Your orientation is your business

You can add your orientation, but you decide who sees it: everyone, only your matches, or nobody. If you hide it, search still works; you just do not appear in the orientation filter.

Discretion, if not everyone knows yet

Your profile shows a nickname, the distance is rounded and nobody sees your exact location. With discreet photos on, your pictures are blurred for everyone you have not shared your album with. On your phone you can set an app lock and a decoy PIN, and the quick exit button leaves the site in one move.

A casual adventure, a regular partner or a date

Mark what you are after: a one-night stand, a regular sex partner, a discreet affair, a kink partner, or a date and see. Others show the same, so you know before the first message whether you want the same thing.

Community and safety

Among the groups there is a Gay men topic, where you can talk to members with similar interests. Our community guidelines forbid hate based on sex, gender identity or sexual orientation, and anyone you do not want to see, you can block or report with one click.

Frequently asked questions

Can I sign up as a bi man?

Of course. You can choose bisexual on your profile and look for women, men and couples at once.

Will others see that I am gay?

Only if you show it. You set who sees your orientation, your profile shows a nickname, and profiles are visible only to logged-in members, never in search engines.

Can two men have a couple profile?

Yes. Choose the couple profile: it shows both partners’ details, and people looking for a male couple will find you.

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